Post by summercool on Jun 6, 2018 9:47:42 GMT -5
I have been dating this guy for a few months and he is ADHD. He is 30. I have never dated anyone who has been diagnosed with ADHD and I guess I'm just looking for advice. He is on mydayis. He just seems very sensitive and I almost want to say immature at times. He interrupts people when they speak which I assume is a symptom of ADHD. I can deal with that. The hypersensitivity is what bothers me. I told him after about 2 months of us talking that maybe we needed to just be friends because he had lied to me about some things. I told him I wasn't mad but he got "emotional" and said "why would you want to be friends with a liar"? Then said he just wanted to quit his job and move away so no one would know where he was. We talked about that and he said his emotions just overcome him sometimes. We obviously are still dating and he has had a few moments like that and I just wonder if its something to worry about or if its just a symptom of ADHD. He has only been on medication for about a year. Aside from those times he is so wonderful. If he does something that bothers me I tell him and he does his best to fix it. He great in every other aspect. I'm just unsure about the extreme sensitivity. I don't fear that he would ever get physical with me at all but he is extremely emotional and I do realize you don't know until it happens but I really would worry more about him harming himself if anything. Not that I think he would do that either. I'm just saying. He is a very emotional person. If we watch a sad movie he cries... that type. Not saying that's bad but it's a bit much when you have only been dating 2 months and his reaction was that extreme. Like I said however, that might just be him because he isn't like that all day every day. Its like he has panic attacks or something. So the question is should I be concerned? Could it be an ADHD thing and he's just a sensitive person? Or what?
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