kittg
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Post by kittg on Jul 30, 2014 16:02:03 GMT -5
Realise what complete bastards humans are in groups, seriously I could teach animal behaviour specialists a thing or two about INA and out grouping and alpha/beta/omega relationships
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Post by Amtram on Aug 2, 2014 9:13:34 GMT -5
Mob mentality rearing its ugly head?
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Post by kittg on Aug 2, 2014 15:33:34 GMT -5
Oh yes
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Post by kittg on Aug 2, 2014 15:35:58 GMT -5
I am used to being an omega in groups but its still hurting, especially when I deliberately try to avoid the group I 'have' to work with and get refered to as Mr "pain in the ass". Doesn't matter that frequently I am the only person doing any work and I am actually a lot more experienced and mature. Getting the highest results on exams doesn't help.
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Post by Amtram on Aug 4, 2014 13:03:33 GMT -5
Interacting with groups (as opposed to individuals) requires a unique skill set. Few people have it in the first place, and if you have a social disadvantage you're even less likely to get it. Sometimes it helps to try to change your attitude towards the treatment you receive. I volunteered in many different types of groups and organizations, and it took me years to learn how to let a lot of things go. Still not perfect, but better.
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Post by kittg on Aug 5, 2014 4:55:23 GMT -5
The problem is I have learned by bitter experience that the beat way to deal with it is to remove myself from the environment. And keep myself to myself, the result has been that my interpersonal skills are even more reduced.
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