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Post by selfishdad19 on Aug 8, 2019 10:08:21 GMT -5
. I have never really given these forums the credit they deserve. I basically need some advice or to find out if anyone else has similar issues as myself.
I have been diagnosed with adult adhd for about 4 years. I am on medication that works. But there area number of personality issues I need some advice in.
I'm married to a very supportive and long suffering wife and I have 3 amazing boys who I adore. Well. As much as I let myself.
Biggest problem is I put myself first with everything I eat their food. I nick money from wife to buy cigarettes.. Or food.. Or occasionally. To gamble. I have been in GA before and it helps... A bit but its not my main problem.
It's my narcissism. And my selfishness. I hate dpin without so I don't. I don't give my wife or kids the time and attention they deserve coz I'm too wrapped up in my own feelings. I'm tired. I'm hungry. I can't be arsed. I don't want to.
I like to think I'm a warm loving guy... When it suits.. But I want to make this more frequent coz I won't lie. My marriage is at rock bottom. My wife has forgiven me more times than I count and she has had enough. The final straw is she has just v ound out I nicked money out her purse and thought I'd got away with it.
And I'm only reacting coz I got caught. I don't know if she can or will forgive me... But moving forward whatever happens I need to discuss this.. Address it.. And take steps to rectify it.
I'm a nice guy normally.. But this selfishness is consuming me.
Any other people in a similar situation to myself? Or have a partner that is the same?
Any comments... Tips... Advice.. Anything.. Please comment and ill read it and act accordingly.
Hope to speak to you guys soon
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